Learn How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend To Love You Again

by Hopeful Romantic on July 3, 2009

in Winning Your Ex Back

Winning Your Ex Back

You and your girlfriend have broken up. You think it’s a mistake and you were meant to be together. Okay, just how do you get your ex back? Learning how to get your ex girlfriend to love you again isn’t necessarily difficult, but it does take some thinking and some planning if you really do want to get the results you seek.

1 – Give yourself time to recover emotionally.

If you want to learn how to make your ex girlfriend love you again, you need to take the time to become emotionally controlled and calmed down. Women dislike me who are desperate, clingy or needy, so pull your life together and get over those feelings long before you consider trying to draw her back in to your life.

2 – No more talk!

Even though it may seem the exact opposite of what you should do when trying to rekindle a relationship, if you want to learn how to get her back you need to begin by cutting off communication for a while. Granted, this is will be tough. You may even feel as if it is killing you, but it will be killing her even more. Women are great communicators! So after a while she will begin to realize how much she she desperately misses you. Cutting off communication is one of the biggest and most vital steps in rekindling things with your ex.

3 – Act like you’re doing fine.

In other words, if you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend to love you again, you need to play it cool. Act like you haven’t got a care in the world.  If you are feeling and behaving depressed, that’s not going to encourage her to want you back. You need to make sure that you are behaving as if you are having a good time, overcoming the break up depression to let her know that everything is okay.

4 – Flirt a little with someone new.

Although this may also seem counterintuitive in nature, it is an extremely useful ploy if you are trying to learn how to get your ex girlfriend to love you again. Start talking to another girl, because it will be too much for your ex to bear. It will take some of your stress away and thus benefit you, but it will also let your ex girlfriend know that you are moving on. This will likely make her jealous and cause her to realize how much she really wants to be with you.

5 – Looking good Man!

Always strive to look your best. Dress well, and look your best all the time. Your ex girlfriend won’t be able to resist you when you’re looking great. It helps trigger her remembering the good times and why she cared about you. Also, appearance can play a large role in showing your ex that you’re moving on and look great. If you look great and take the time to look your best, your ex will notice, and will respond positively.

These are good tips for winning your ex back, but there’s much more to learn, so stay tuned!   (Or buy “The Magic Of Making Up” and get a whole system for helping you get your ex girlfriend to love you again!)

{ 5 comments… read them below or add one }

1 imran September 27, 2009 at 11:27 AM

hey actually me and my girlfriend got court marriage little more than year ago and last month i got engaged, but right after engagement she broke up saying i was not behaving good at engagement day, its going to be culture clash in future, im not that educated and don’t have good job or business basically she wanted to me to prove her parents and relatives that i am something, i am capable of taking care of her. she gave me so many excuses to break up and i don’t know which one to believe. she is muslim sunny and im muslim shia. we have been together for 9 years. I moved to Texas to do something about our future, but since i am not legal its hard for me to do something. i saw her after 6 months when i went to get engaged in California and thats where she lives. her parents are really against me and hate me and being muslim and being girl she cant go against them. when she broke up with me i convinced her so much but she was so hard on me. I felt like she does not know me or she does not care or hurt at all because 9 years is alot to know somebody. but we talk as friends and i told her and made her believe that im going to school and trying to get business, also i told her that i have some girls in my class and we talk and she thinks that we are going out. i even asked her for divorce, because she used to ask me for divorce, but since she thinks i am going out with someone or like someone she has been cursing me and saying stuff that i ruined her life by marring her and want divorce for some other girls. so please help me, tell me what should i do next

2 Hopeful Romantic September 27, 2009 at 12:42 PM

I’m a little confused. It sounds like you were married legally, but are not living together. Then you got engaged according to your Muslim religion, but that didn’t go well.

The question to ask yourself is this: do you feel like you two can have a future together? Or are there too many negatives standing in the way?

It sounds like the religious issues seem to be your biggest problem. Perhaps you would do well to send a question to “Ask The Scholar” at IslamOnline.net

or you can also ask such questions at Reading Islam

I think they would have a better understanding of your situation and may be able to help you better.

3 imran September 27, 2009 at 5:12 PM

it was never a issue of religion but after engagement she started making excuses that you did not finish your school you did not do business plus she was listening to other people. ya we did court marriage but were not living together………and since she knows that im talking to other girls she being rude or jealous. she is blaming me that its really easy for me to move on but its going to be hard for her because she still have feelings for me. I dont know what to do. should i ask her if she wants to give one more chance to our relationship or just get divorce

4 sean September 27, 2009 at 10:04 PM

You and your girlfriend have broken up. You think it’s a mistake and you were meant to be together. Okay, just how do you get your ex back? Learning how to get your ex girlfriend to love you again isn’t necessarily difficult, but it does take some thinking and some planning if you really do want to get the results you seek.

1 – Give yourself time to recover emotionally.

If you want to learn how to make your ex girlfriend love you again, you need to take the time to become emotionally controlled and calmed down. Women dislike me who are desperate, clingy or needy, so pull your life together and get over those feelings long before you consider trying to draw her back in to your life.

2 – No more talk!

Even though it may seem the exact opposite of what you should do when trying to rekindle a relationship, if you want to learn how to get her back you need to begin by cutting off communication for a while. Granted, this is will be tough. You may even feel as if it is killing you, but it will be killing her even more. Women are great communicators! So after a while she will begin to realize how much she she desperately misses you. Cutting off communication is one of the biggest and most vital steps in rekindling things with your ex.

3 – Act like you’re doing fine.

In other words, if you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend to love you again, you need to play it cool. Act like you haven’t got a care in the world. If you are feeling and behaving depressed, that’s not going to encourage her to want you back. You need to make sure that you are behaving as if you are having a good time, overcoming the break up depression to let her know that everything is okay.

4 – Flirt a little with someone new.

Although this may also seem counterintuitive in nature, it is an extremely useful ploy if you are trying to learn how to get your ex girlfriend to love you again. Start talking to another girl, because it will be too much for your ex to bear. It will take some of your stress away and thus benefit you, but it will also let your ex girlfriend know that you are moving on. This will likely make her jealous and cause her to realize how much she really wants to be with you.

5 Hopeful Romantic September 27, 2009 at 10:28 PM

Okay, religion has nothing to do with it, but you had an engagement after you’d already been legally married. I’m still a little confused about this.

At any rate, it sounds like you still have feelings for your wife. Considering you have 9 years invested in this relationship, and she’s not an ex, perhaps before giving up you might be wise to give another shot at talking to her and see if you can come to a mutual understanding about what you both expect from this relationship and how you could move forward. Perhaps you could both go to a counselor, as it sometimes helpful to have a third party mediate the conversation.

Then if you can’t agree and she wants a divorce, you will at least know that you tried everything you could to make the relationship work. I think that’s better than having regrets somewhere down the line that you gave up too soon and wish you’d tried harder.

Good luck. I hope things work out for you.

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